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Spiritual pain is that which dislocates, rejects, and violates our authentic nature. There is no pain greater than feeling the loss of yourself. In healing the heart we recover access to our authentic potentials. Feelings of anxiety, depression, confusion – are symptoms of a loss of self – this pain is a call from the Rejected, disowned, suppressed parts of ourselves for healing and integration.  This is about the healing of the self in order to access and unfold the soul’s potential…


It is often the events that seem insignificant to adults that wound us as children.

As children, we do our best to make sense out of painful experiences, but simply do not have enough information. We create beliefs about ourselves, other people, and the world we live in based on the wounding. These valid but false beliefs, and inner wounds become the groundwork of our lives.

We create goals, seek or avoid experiences and emotions, make decisions about careers, relationships, ourselves… based on these wounds and painful beliefs.

Eventually we come to a point where we start to question our lives, feel anxious, depressed, unfulfilled…because we know that something is not right. Although we believe that we are being ourselves, we are living a life of coping. This life is not born from the real you.


We feel unfulfilled, because we are living from a self that was created to  deal with pain…creating a life that is not authentic to who we really are, a life that does not feel quite right. In living from a false self that was created to cope with pain, we eventually end up creating more pain. It hurts to be disconnected from you who are, to be suppressed in the actualization of your true self.

Unhealed wounds create the experience of self-hate, anger, anxiety, stress, discontent, depression, confusion, self-doubt. We become blocked by our pasts, we do not express ourselves truly and fully into our lives, we feel suffering.

In order to free ourselves to be happy, the wounds of the past, the false beliefs, the blocks between how you want to live and how you feel today are calling for attention. The ‘false self’ needs to be released, the real self needs to be reborn.